. >> what that say is that, you know, a person he's very close to is elton john. exactly. exactly. let's move on. at a recent halloween party we all know derek hough was spotted hanging out with his sister's ex ryan seacrest. we talked about it. i don't like it they remain friends. i think it's a violation of family. you know, when you split up with somebody, choose a side. you can't remain my friend and his friend. so what are you going to do? you might not feel the same way. >> why not? this was the tamest relationship in hollywood history. i don't think i saw these guys kiss ever. there was no adultery. there was no domestic violence. there was no any drama. so what is the big deal. this is a different tuation. >> i wrote in my book sex life and cookies that i he a no fly zone. if you wake up with a guy, i don't think if he's in new york, l.a., every place in between, you cannot go near hi a friend, a close friend, a brother, a sister, i thi it's very dichlt. >> yeah, it is. >> i can't disagree more. my friend is janetta. her son is usher. he was with chili. we all know they wer