"Whom he loveth he chasteneth": June 1844-January 1852 -- "The respect and affection of the excellent": February 1852-July 1854 -- "Be patient under reproof": September 1854-August 1860 -- "Please write soon": September 1861-July 1862 -- "I heartily wish i was home": December 1862-November 1863 -- "Rejoice with trembling": November 1863-March 1865 -- "So on we went": May-November 1865 -- "It was hard to part with you": April-November 1866 -- "Mutual exasperation": December 1866-September 1867 -- "Girls are nice": May 1868-October 1870 -- "Take care of yourself": March 1871-April 1873